1:00. . I got very good at keeping it secret and like you did it until my late teens. 1. m1tanker632. Plzzz Heeeeeeelp! Like diapers or pants checks? - i.e. She made me do my own washing, well before starting high school, claiming it was to give me independence. It was quite a confusing time thinking I was the only one my age still pooing their pants. I never liked the feeling of having messy underwear. All I had to do was explain myself better and she would have probably got me some medication. I sh*t my pants right on the rock wall of one of those rock climbing gyms. Before you do the test you need to pee/poop at least a bit! 5.) did not think of the consequences of my actions. I remember one guy talking about the time he pooped in his snow pants on a ski trip. 1). Why suffer the strain of trying to hold it in? It was not a phrase that was usually used in my house, but it would have I didn't have wetting accidents as a child and I'm sure I would not have enjoyed the feeling of pee pouring down my legs in addition to the constant feeling of soiled pants. Ruby Coles, who received an honors bachelor of social work, admitted she . I was always extremally constipated and avoided using the toilets at school or when I was out somewhere. When she was 4 she went thru a stage where she would randomly poop in her pants, not fully but enough to get our attention which we eventually realized was the cause of the 'accidents'. However, it might have just come down to the simple fact that I had reached the front steps to my house before succumbing to this temptation, and had I lived a little further away, I would have done the shameful deed. said her mom. When You Poop Your Pants As An Adult. pants, changing me at my grandmothers home would have been nearly I don't think looking at it like she is doing it "on purpose" is your best way of thinking about this situation. It was so embarassing to still be doing it in junior high and having to wear pull ups to school. Even if I had wanted When i was about 3-4 years old i pooped my pants quite often, mom wasn't happy about it, but i sure as hell was, in fact i didn't do it out of laziness, it'd do it just cause i found it fun, the warm poop against your butt would feel really great, usually i'd hold it till i was about to burst, squat, and then completely let all the poop fill my pants or diaper while giggling and loving having that warm poop load my pants, but then came the best part, after i was done pooping i'd then sit in my huge mess and have fun squishing it all over my butt, the feeling of all my poop spreading all over my butt was the greatest thing ever, and i didn't mind the smell, in fact i liked being so stinky back then (now i don't anymore don't worry), and the fun didn't stop here, because i wasn't the only little boy in the neighborhood to enjoy messing his pants, there were a couple boys that loved it just as much, usually we'd all hide in the numerous spots in the neighborhood out of parents and other kids view and play a lot of games around that, the most common one was just us sitting in a rough circle and pooping our pants/diapers all at the same time and then smell each other's messes, but we got more "creative" than that, sometimes we'd poop in each other's pants and then their owner would wear them and enjoy the feeling of poopy pants, sometimes we'd all poop in one diaper, sometimes we made a contest of who could make the biggest mess in his pants, oh and if we pooped our pants we wouldn't come back home to change, we'd just keep pooping in it, even if it started leaking, it was just more fun like that, but eventually our parents started punishing us for it couple weeks before we started school and we had to stop. Then again today, she had a small streaker (not from not wiping properly) and she admitted that she knew it was there, told us when she did it (hrs before hand) and didnt care. The medical side of it was never discussed or explored by my family as it was always just assumed I was being naughty or lazy - to the point where I actually begin to wonder this myself One other thing I recall is that when Id done it it would smell for a few seconds and then the smell would disappear. When she looked inside my pants and found out how much I'd pooed in them and how messy I was she was furious with me. toilet because shortly afterwards I felt that I had to go again. I could never smell it on myself, but I could feel the mess in my pants and knew that discovery and another telling off, as well as an embarrassing clean-up, were somewhere around the corner. show her it is not fun to act like a baby. Hi, thanks for telling your story. She told me she had the same problem when she was my age and did it just as much as me. But it turned out to be a really good group that taught us coping techniques and strategies to keep our underwear and pants clean. In this blog he attempts to offer a child's view of encopresis (children messing their pants when they are past potty training age) I kept saying, no, she's not constipated. I know how humiliating it felt to have to stand lower half naked in front of my mother as she cleaned poo off of me when I was 11, and I'm sure it must have been worse for you as you were still being changed by your Mum until your were 13, as well as by school staff, and then as a teenager having to wash your soiled underwear while your Mum watched you doing it.I never wore nappies at night, but if I had then my child's brain would probably not be too upset if they were soiled in the morning as it was better than having an accident in my pants during the day. That was usually during class or while I was doing something interesting. Yes, this is sooooo normal. When you can't soak up any more moisture with paper towels, try using the hand dryer. Don't assume it's a control issue. Walk up to it and point the stain towards the air. She'll get tired of it real quick and don't give her any attention over it. It was on the walk home over a few blocks from school when I felt the extreme discomfort of my full bladder. Then made some awful comments about me being too old and doing it on purpose, so I would have to sit and suffer in pooed pants all day. i know that most of the time you didnt feel the poo leaving your bum and going in your pants but would you soil standing up. First take her to the pediatrician & have They were both instigated by my mother, so it seemed like she didnt want to deal with the situation. Share the best GIFs now >>> One of them was during a holiday break when 3 of my cousins stayed at our house. I don't know what else to do. I was far too cornered with my personal hygiene even as a baby. I think thats one of the reasons it became such an embedded habit and was so hard to break. "in a loud voice. One of the curious aspects of my soiling problem was the fact that whenever my mum realised what I'd done, it wouldn't necessarily mean that I would then be cleaned up, in fact it was the norm for me to remain in my dirty pants for the rest of the day. We would usually tell each other if we needed to go but neither of us ever wanted to go home because that usually meant the end of exploring. I told myself that if I let my bowels go I would get out at the next subway station and throw myself on the tracks, and put an end to the painful physical and emotional blows of such indignity to . When a runners leg muscle mass are working extra time, much less blood goes to their intestines. I Poop My Pants On Purpose bornkiller Administrator In your girlfriends snatch January 2013 edited January 2013 in Spurious Generalities The comments kinda explain it. I sprinted to the bathroom, cleaned up and finished the workout. If she has held her poop in the past, it's possible that her rectum has lost its feeling and she doesn't know WHEN she has pooped. Then another time, I pooped massively in my pull up while walking to my class. A safe space for people of all walks of life that like to poop their pants intentionally or accidentally, or like to watch others do it. Peppa Pig Poop 2. It hadnt been a problem for me for a while, so I didnt consider taking medication with me. "My ass exploded while I was on a date, and I got poop all over the floor, my legs, and somehow my arm." by Spencer . Indeed, I was treating my underwear like it was a nappy. I was a little scared of getting caught by my workmates but thankfully nobody others not came to gym since somebody would surely smell what I had done. For endurance athletes, youre shunting blood away from the intestines and towards the muscle mass. Similar to the time you did it on purpose, so did I but not just once. Little Girl Poops in Her Lunch Box Causing Mom to Throw Up. In the same way that you may Pin for Later: Megan Stetzel Megan is a girl that shouldn't travel. Still don't need to go. Someone pooped (feces) their pants while in a dance-off! Then we put her and her 3 yr old sister in a bath and she pooped a small amount, knew about it and waited til I found it and then looked at me like I was crazy for getting pissed. Let Go Of The Problem Yes, the child going number 2 in his pants is a huge problem. He refuses to play with his toys, or play games with my sister. They start learning something else and potty training sort of goes out the window for a short while. It's EXACTLY what you're describing. Hi James, I think your experiences and story probably resonate with a lot of people that struggled with soiling when they were young. been particularly apt on this day. I couldn't hold it, mainly because when I was this age I had a weak bladder. It completely changed my image of him. Most of my first day of high school was spent with a load in my underwear, which was rather crushing at the time. my life, I pooed in my pants on purpose. One is that is was about control. Peppa Pig Play-Doh Toilet Training Accident Pees Her Pants and Poops. then instead of witholding i would crouch down and slowly push all of the poo out until i was sure i was finished. That came during a holiday with a friend and his family. toilet training too early . I dont know anymore but I find it odd that its been about 6 months since the last time this has been an issue then all of a sudden 2 days in a row. Hi Anonymous, Being part of a support group and knowing you were not the only one with the problem must have been great. Haven't had this happen exactly, but I do have kids with lactose intolerance who've had a few leaks in their underpants from diarrhea type stools. I understand how embarrassing this must have been for both of you, particularly if you were still having accidents when you were teenagers, and messing yourself at school, which I largely avoided.Pull-ups weren't invented when I was a child, but I doubt that my mother would have let me wear "protection" in any case. Not wanting to stop what I was doing. Lack of understanding from my mother.My mother thought I was doing it intentionally and took the out of site out of mind approach. charlesandchase. My son went every day, like clockwork. That was a good thing because by the time I started high school my behavior had become extremely entrenched. and you wonder why she doesn't want to tell you when it happens? During dinner, Julia pooped in her panties. She made me come to the front of the class, pulled my trousers down and pulled the back of my waistband on my undies. It's worth noting that children pooping pants on purpose are due to a variety of reasons. panties. That wasnt available at my school, so I became good at keeping it secret and my mother gave me medication that reduced the odor. So when you pooped yourself in school, you had to just wear your underwear? When most of the other boys were wearing boxers,i still wore briefs. I am sure that this must have made you feel less alone with your problem. did not need toys or other children or adults to have a fun time playing. I am not sure whybut I can tell you that your assumption that because she is 'regular', she is not constipated is not correct. It also meant there was only one a day to deal with. Gym are at sundays evenings very quiet and usually Im been alone in there. I tried to blank it out of my mind and almost pretended it wasnt happening to normalise it if that makes sense. This basically means when a child feels things are getting too much for them to handle, they seek solace by trying to recreate their baby or toddler years when life was simpler. In the event youre not close to a toilet and need to go poop, you may attempt manipulating these muscle mass to carry it in till you may go:Clench your butt cheeks collectively. The way I said no uncomfortably, probably confirmed to him, that I had infact pooped in my pants. It seems that old habits die hard when it comes to bowel movements. Age 5 -7 was rough at my house. task and my mother decided that I would need a bath. The remainder of the walk was a slow, teary, squelchy one. Just wondering if your Mum took you from shop to shop in dirty pants. That usually meant being a far distance from my house so when it came to doing number 2 I would just do it in my underwear rather that stop exploring or doing whatever I was doing. Through the 1982 World Ironman Championship in Hawaii, Julie Moss dirty herself in front of 20 million viewers tuned into ABCs Extensive World of Sports activities. done. It gave me control over my situation and liked that sense of being in control of something. I sat in the tub feeling ashamed A quick conversation at the door was good enough and meant I didnt have to waste time cleaning up. and my mother reprimanded me throughout the journey. humiliating half-hour bus ride home in my soiled pants, absolutely reeking of And now you're included in that list. So what am I missing? She almost full on crapped in her underwear and then sat in it for 3 hrs. Here are some reasons why some children soil their pants: Some kids may purposely poop in their pants because, all of a sudden, they don't feel like using a potty. You have to see it for yourself. Every seat in the cart had someone sitting in it so everyone would have heard me ask and that was far to confronting for me. There was a separate group for girls.The rule in the school was that if you had several pooping accidents, you were encouraged to attend. I started washing my own clothes quite young and also used cologne long before any of my friends or classmates. I felt that way too. Her rewards were questionable, but one thing is for sure I was determined my underwear were going to stay clean. 167 Stories. The medication my mother gave me and washing my own underwear made that a lot easier. I withheld a fecal explosion on the NYC subway from 210th Street to Columbus Circle, sweating like a terrorist. then i would carry on playing untill i got another urge to poo. I have 4 yr old DD who loves her Frozen and other princess underwear - she is having a hard time learning and remembering to wipe well. We answer your top questions about the flu vaccine. Mar 3, 2016. I thought the same thing for months and months of my daughter getting UTIs. Don't punish, teach. It was like an equalizer between all of us. We developed a sense of humor about our problem. http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Poop-My-Pants-On-Purpose/901933. I think kids with encopresis often have great imaginations maybe connected.I read a great book called ADD The Edison Gene. Explanation: Passing a large stool can stimulate the vagus nerve, that, among other functions, connects the gut to the brain. Once this was out of the way, I don't think it would have bothered me unduly to have to wear them for the rest of the day, at least not while I was at home and playing by myself.Thank you for sharing your story. Unfortunately, that was most of his relations that had gone with us. Then you know you have a different problem. Being lenient may make them believe that . How To: Poop Your Pants Rod Squad 467 subscribers Subscribe 337 54K views 9 years ago Hope this tutorial helped! And I certainly got used to wearing messy underwear for long periods without it feeling particularly uncomfortable, and carried on acting normally with a load in my pants. When it did I just made an excuse and went home before anyone noticed, that worked until I was at a friends birthday party. So cute in emoji form, so humiliating as an adult. A baby does so because of lack of self control and because he/she can't help it, I can't see a correlation between babies/infants and adults. With no bathroom, no hot running water and no spare Going unnoticed at school or out places on the weekend made me feel like I was in control of my situation, but it also made it a lot worse. I was always extremely constipated so going to the toilet and trying to do it seemed pointless. No, I would not poop my pants on purpose. But I always managed to successfully hide them from being detected. Additionally Id had issues throughout year 7 with pooping my bedtime nappy and, again, out of ease (and frustration) in a morning my Mum would change me. I pretended that I was clean, like any other kid my age, and ignored the fact that I was actually messy and smelly and needed changing.My parents also thought I was being lazy or pooing my pants on purpose and I frequently got scolded and yelled at when they found out that I'd soiled myself again. ), Help with Potty Trained 3.5 Yo Girl That Suddenly Is Having "Accidents". Next try to keep in mind she's only 5, not 15 so it's most likely do to something other than an attitude issue/response. something to do. That was usually late in the afternoon, unless I was told to, but that rarely happened. How none of us noticed or smelled it is beyond me but it happened. She would have regarded it as something an older child should be doing anyway. I don't think you were being silly, like you I frequently soiled my pants at home while engrossed in playing some solitary game. The anxiety of starting high school seemed to make my constipation even worse and I spent most of the first day with a load in my underwear. Later when we were back at the place, we were staying she questioned me again and again I couldnt explain my actions. 4. yes a member of staff would help to clean me up afterwards. These are complex concepts for children to associate with a behavior. My phobia with public toilets was also part of my decision not to go, but the main reason was the challenge to keep my secret. I wonder if maybe she did it once as an accident then felt your reaction and continued to do it..is she testing and pushing limits in other ways??? Have you ever pooped your pants by accident or on purpose? Being good at keeping it secret probably would have excluded me from discovering it anyway. or money to keep me entertained. Well I supposed Im just going to have to believe you and your old enough to deal with your situation yourself. most of the time there were smears of poo often known as skid marks. I crouched down and added to the waste in my Like you James I soiled my pants regularly as a boy (at school and at home). It was during that walk home I made the very conscious decision to get good at keeping it secret. Get a sweater to wrap around your pants, a long skirt or a change of clothes. This will get most of the moisture out of your pants and/or underwear. then i would put my hands in my pants to feel if there was any poo there. Dab away at the stain slowly. himself anyway, so it was a case of in for the penny, in for the pound. Maybe that was the way I was thinking that There were even times people commented on how nice I smelt which was rather odd considering what was in my underwear. !" shouted her mom. 3) My need to go has increased substantially. I dont remember what I said to her, but it couldnt have been very convincing because she said something like. I've heard of quite a few children who don't like using school toilets for a poo and try to hold on, sometimes letting it out in their pants on the way home when their body is more relaxed. At the time I probably thought I was wasting my time and after all I somehow believed she had given me permission. (and 2 more) 1 reply. by Jesse Donaldson. It must have been a few days since I had used the He lined all the boys up and asked who had pooped, but none of us confessed. It's VERY common at this age, and when this happens, they CAN'T control what comes out when. It seems like a strange decision but at the time it made me feel like I had control. I got away with it without being discovered and started doing it more and more often. Recently discovered communism Jan 11 Only if it was for a HUGE prize. Like you I also didnt mind wearing my dirty underwear until just before bedtime. which has since been converted. The correct answer is: True. I think my mum hoped that this would encourage me to stop soiling. even as an older child i was still interested in things which might seem below my age. I would take her to the dr to check it out. favorite_border. Step 2 - Get back-up clothes. Verat Yabrewi654. then i would carry on playing. I got so good at hiding my secret I hung out with my friends directly after school and on the weekends. At primary school it wasnt too much of an issue as there was a really kind assistant and dinner lady who would change me with spares from the box in reception. If I couldnt find somewhere private to go I just held it in even when I knew what was probably going to happen. . Like me my friends were impatient, so taking too long meant catching up with them, wherever we were going. No one seemed to realize and keeping it that way was my new challenge. But, apart from the day recounted above, I wouldn't deliberately poo in my pants, to my younger self this would have been just too naughty and I hated the moment when I knew that I had pooed myself, I wouldn't make it happen on purpose. As your parents and society at large expected you to use the toilet, you chose to go in your pants instead.The other theory I have heard of is the idea of comfort soiling. thought of using the toilet when I already had a pooey bottom, and of pulling down This would lead to suggestions that Id done it again in my pants and lead to being changed anyway. Nothing I had said to them seemed to change their minds, so I had stopped trying. By the time I started high school I was doing it almost daily, yet I dont think my parents had any idea. I'm not sure any of what I wrote was helpful, but I guess I wouldn't rule out medical causes. this wasnt the case for me. Sally's mother asked and Sally replied, "Mum, I've pooped my pants and there's more coming", so the car stopped very quickly and we both ran to the woods, behind a tree, and I helped Sally lower her track pants and red panties, before lowering my own jeans and underwear, and we both squatted side by side, holding hands as mud flowed out of our bowels. 6:29. I imagine that was a difficult and embarrassing conversation. I thought about telling the driver to stop but that was a terrifying. you are demanding adult logic and responses from very little girl. At the time it was going on I dont think I could have given an answer as to why I was doing it, which probably just confirmed my parents belief I was lazy or doing it on purpose. Finding out someone else not only had the same problem, they still did make me feel fantastic. 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